Can it be true or false? Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater? Lets wrap our mind through this
fact to unravel the truth.
People who’ve never felt the pain caused by infidelity often believe “Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater!” and the partner who cheated is not only morally bankrupt, but also insensitive and wicked.
They don’t know what it feels like, realizing a partner is cheating. This comes with emotional baggage, endless tears and so on. And you find people categorizing all cheaters together in a negative light.
The question reflects the pain caused by infidelity, broken promises and words of betrayal.
At the same time the quiet questions reserves hope that there is light at the end of a tunnel for remorse, redemption and reconciliation.
There is also a missing puzzle at play here…
How true is it… Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater!?
It speaks of trust “Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater”
How can i trust my spouse again knowing what they did?
Can i really trust that my spouse will not cheat again? My heart is heavy and i can’t take any more of the deception and betrayal.
Once the marital issues are resolved, healed and reconstructed, the odds of cheating again are revised.
It depends…on two important factors.
1. The kind of affair. Most especially an affair prone to repeat experience.
2. The persistent growth of a Cheating spouse (and the heart broken partner as well…)
Once there is genuine repentance from the spouse having an affair, it brings healing, rebuilds the marriage and eliminates any form of cheating going forward.
To help illustrate this better. Lets turn to an expert in the industry for more insight on the topic. Dr. Bob Huizenga has designed the perfect info-graphic that helps couples identify the kind of affair taking place. The probability he/she may cheat again and how you can decrease those odds.
The 7 Types of Affairs
Can you identify the category you are currently facing? What are your odds?
No matter how difficult the odds are, it’s still possible to break free from that extramarital affair and rescue your marriage if you truly want to!
Click below to discover my best res to accomplish this just like MANY other men and women have already.